Why don’t you try Dear Coffee Beans?
1) ‘Sheker Lo Ka’ee’ – Falshood does not stand. How long it takes to crumble is not clearly known. It just will have to crumble. Take Russian communism, it took 70 years. However ‘..THEY GRIND EXCEEDING SMALL’ (you know that quote, I’m sure)
2) HaShem listens and sometimes answers with ‘mein tiere kind, right now it’s best for you not to… You’ll eventually understand my whole plan’. Asking Tzadikim to intercede helps GREATLY! ??? ??? ??? ????? ???? ?????. True friends also help with their tefillos. One last point, davening for someone else (in the same matzav) greatly helps. I’m sure you’re aware of ?????? ??? ????? ???? ???? ????? ??? ??? ???? ?????.