popa_bar_abba wrote:
romance seems like such a goyish concept.
That is very unfortunate.
It is not a goyish concept. It is a human concept.
Romance is the most important part of the spousal relationship. Dating is not an interview for a job.
I think you should ask someone you respect about this.
Agreed. See Rashi on Shemos 38:8
By the way, let’s revive http://www.theyeshivaworld.com/coffeeroom/topic/funny-shidduch-stories/