actually, the guy is in a catch-22, cuz if he doesn’t give the get right away unless everything is worked out, the wife claims that she is an aguna case and everyone is anti- the man, not caring about the details.
not to say that there are not other real aguna cases. there are.
but it’s not always the men to blame (nor is it always the women to blame), but either way it is a messy, messy situation.