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For all of the ladies that have settled. Please, please do not complain to me about your husbands. I do not care. You chose him. Not I. You knew when you married him HE was not THE one. The peer, family, ticking clock pressures got to you. I don’t want to hear your complaints. Again, I do not care.
If your husband isn’t capable of watching your kids when you are not home — hire a sitter or if possible have one of the grandparents come help.
If he treats you like a rag…. Your fault. You didn’t set boundaries from day one.
If he doesn’t lift a finger to help in the house….. Your fault. You didn’t set boundaries from day one.
If he talks to you in a disrespectful way…. Your fault. You didn’t set boundaries from the day one.
You got what you wanted. Now deal with it!!!