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April 27, 2011 7:15 pm at 7:15 pm
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walton157
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@mw13: How can we make a decision for someone who wants to remain single? When people turn 18, they are emancipated from their parents/guardians. Noone can make this choice for anybody.
Yes, if someone wants to get married, I will encourage tham to continue their search.
But if they don’t why waste everyone’s time and energy??
Men and women (who want to remain single) go on dates out of obligation or they don’t want the community to see them as “freaks”. They are not only “stealing” their date’s time, but their’s and the person who set them up.
Does this make sense to anyone?