Reply To: Stop minding your own buisness!

boredinoffice:

“the person rushing in to criticize and point out flaws on other people should first be sure that they are in a position to give mussar.”

The passukim don’t seem to make such a qualification; do you have a source for it?

“perhaps the person who is “not following halacha” is either following the psak of another rov that is matir whatever he/she is doing or perhaps it is assur but he/she were goven a heter for various reasons.”

Then no harm done.

“I persoanlly get upset when someone points out something that I am doing that is not correct. It does not draw anyone closer to frumkeit.”

First of all, just because you get upset about something doesn’t mean that everybody else does also, as you seem to assume.

Second, if done right this should offend nobody. Walk over, strike up a conversation, then mention “oh by the way my Rav holds your not allowed to do xyz, does your Rav hold different?”