zahavasdad, oomis1105 and any other women, girls or females commenting here:
I don’t think it’s fair to judge or comment on male issues until you become one. Their bodies, indeed entire being, is of different makeup. Looking / gazing at sights affects them entirely differently then the opposite side of the mechitza (hence the need of a mechitza). There’s a special mitzva for them in the Torah, V’lo sasuru”, he gave them the nisayon, he gave them the mitzvah. Females do not have, and cannot understand this ta’ava.