I don’t get it. Why is everyone acting like all couples who struggle with infertility are one and the same?
Just because one couple prefers total privacy, doesn’t mean that another would like to share what’s happening with close family/friends.
And just because it’s too painful for one couple to spend a lot of time around their neices and nephews, doesn’t mean that another couple doesn’t actually ENJOY the opportunity to hang around the kids.
Shouldn’t we just use the rule that Mother In Israel wrote: Read your sibling’s cues and follow them?