I would give up having lots of guests but I kenaina hara have a big family of which I know most of it’s members (this is going from (great) aunts and uncles down to second cousins once removed) even if I keep it down to immediate family (no further than say close first cousins) it would still be on the larger side (by my brother’s wedding we had I think 150 coming from each side just for the meal). One man band all the way but that is just because we have a family friend we use. Fake flowers but that would be more the kallah’s decision. To keep it short and sweet I am not big on whole to dos
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