Eclipse, there is absolutely nothing wrong with you telling your kids “In this house you may refer to her as .(her name). In daddy’s house call her mommy”. In your house YOU are the mommy whether you call yourself Ima, mommy, mom, mother or any other derivative. YOU do not have to hear your kids call her any form of the word. She can be referred to by her first name or by daddy’s wife. Whichever way the children prefer to call her. So you can tell the kids “I am the only mommy in this house, ok? In this house you may call her…….” (be nice now :)..)
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