I’m really getting turned off to the CR by some people’s chumras & trying to push their trips, & being unnecessarily hurtful in the process.
it’s not nice to bum someone out by saying things like:
“Therefore there is no mekor for doing a Mezinka tanz other than ‘minhag hagoyim’.” … what’s the point of saying that, after I happily said we had (obviously a version of) the mezinka @ our child’s wedding?… to make me feel like a shiksha?!
there have been other things said, too.. but this one was out & out derogatory. :/
sorry– I had to vent.
I think I’m checkin’ outta here for awhile.
P.S.
Goq~ if you see this, don’t forget to count my secret ballot! 😉