ZachKessin:
“The quality of the wedding has very little to do with the quality of the marriage.”
I beg to differ. In fact that is one of the reasons there is a Mitzva to make a Choson & Kallah happy at their wedding, I’m told, is for them to have something to bank on when times are rough. Sometimes they wonder if the whole deal was worth it… they remember how glad & happy they were at their Chasuna… peace is restored.