drugs were absolutely heavily in the picture with our boys.
please take this in the spirit it is meant: be real… & open to the fact that it’s veryy possible… it usually goes hand in hand. if not drugs, then alcohol.
sorry to say, & hopin’ not in your case, iy’H.
IMHO, Derech’s comments were given as advice, not as a personal attack; same with my comments. I’m just sayin’….