When I read this thread…i actually had a sigh of relief that Im not the only one feeling this way!
yes, i know many girls are single, but not many feel comfortable
to vent…or to be a listener to s/o who feels the need to vent!
so thank u all for ur courage to write about ur feelings…
Ya this shabbos was hard for me too…saying the rosh chodesh bentchin again reminded me that another month past and nothing on the horizon…another month past like the many many other months with no calls.
But I know deep down that Hashem is looking out for me! I know that nothing stands in His way- and that the moment He will decide, it WILL happen!
i have to keep reminding myself whose running the show, cuz s/t it feels like we’r so dependent on others in shidduchim- for our friends/neighbors/relatives to say good things about us, for well meaning people to give that “push” when needed, for those mothers to consider us, to make those calls! for those yentas, to stop
making us feel inadequate and make us another topic to discuss…
but in truth, its all a show,Hashem pulls all the strings!!! it can happen in blink of an eye…and like you girls, am waiting for the right one and I truly hope it will be soon for everyone!