Ofcourse
I don’t get it. It’s your money, right? So you decide if you want to spend it on the DP or retirement. Your money, your decision, I don’t see where the kids come in.
I’m just curious about where they pick up this self-centered attitude.
“The kids want us to have the same Bitachon that the schools told them to have in married life”
You’re sure it’s Bitachon in Hashem? It sounds a little like its Bitachon in Daddy’s wallet.