Very sad; 50 comments and everybody missed the boat!!
Read the Rambam – he writes exactly how a husband must treat his wife and exactly how a wife must treat her husband.
Then, do something no one does – read your kesubah and look in Shulchan Aruch to find out what each of you are obligated to do for your spouse and what your spouse can demand of you al pi Torah.
Instead of all these soap opera advice givers, try learning the Torah hashkofo.