AJE, firstly Refuah Sheleimah for both you and your child, and may you experience a ZEESA Pesach. As I said, people have various reasons for doing what they do, and No ONE has a right to judge and should really just keep their opinions to themselves. That is why I tried to stop this entire thread by saying we have unfortunately done this before, etc., etc., etc.,
People are always judgmental until Hashem tests them with the nisyonos that others carry, it is only at that point that they begin to sing a different tune. Hashem has given you your own special angel. A tzadik in his own right because he himself would not be tested in this way if he weren’t. So please ignore the foolishness and ignorance of others and just surround yourself and your family with positive energy such as that which is showered upon you by the Chai Lifeline team. You must be very special people to have this challenge. So whatever avenues Hashem provides for you to make your life easier, happier or fun and exciting, follow those roads and enjoy the ride!!!