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March 23, 2011 2:00 pm at 2:00 pm
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Shoresh: There are two types of peer pressure, one good and one, um, “otherwise”.
Peer pressure to do what’s wrong or refrain from doing the correct thing, is bad.
Peer pressure can also keep a person in check, and hold them back from doing something incorrect.
If a person says “I don’t care so much about the Yiddishkeit of the person I marry, as long as I’m happy”, then PP can be good.
If you’re for real, disscuss with a teacher etc.
(I know I’ll probably be accused of sinas chinom and other goodies. Please read my posts in the other thread prior to doing that. Just writing the way I see it, in this case..)