msseeker, as long as EH responds to me, I will reply, thank you very much. And yes, although that is very rude of you and uncalled for, for your information I have admitted that I was wrong when I was and I have apologized for it, have you and because you have mentioned it and brought it up has Esther (sorry Esther this question is not really directed to you or about you it is an issue with msseeker)?
anon1m0us, kids are NOT invited to a bris, a bris is announced and friends are informed. People choose to bring their kids. The tables are set up for adults and there might be a kids table set up with cereals, etc. When was the last time you made a bris? And YOU are mixing apples and oranges when you speak about taking kugel from a child and giving it to an adult. It is NOT shayach.
Furthermore, a member of a shul certainly has more of a right to a seat than a non-member and certainly an adult who pays membership fees, more than a child if you want to discuss chiyuvim. Esther still has not answered whether or not she indeed is a member of that shul.
Esther, we have a huge difference of opinion here. Maybe because we see things differently or maybe because we have an age gap, or maybe because we were raised differently in different generations. I have no issue with you personally we just don’t see eye to eye and I don’t ever wish to have an issue with you personally. I refuse to allow others to make this a personal issue between us. I hope we are at least on the same page about this.