Reply To: Advice line in Mishpacha Family First

Popa: Another thing, why are you assuming they will get (pun unintended) divorced. Thats a pretty pessimistic approach. And I am being realistic, when I say that they very likely will have a beautiful lasting marriage. The main thing is they need to have an honest personal conversation and figure out the best solution.

If they do what you suggest, they may have a happy marriage.

If she listens to the people she asked for help, she will begin to harass him worse than ever, and he will be more and more convinced that his wife will not respect him unless he stays in yeshiva, and hate it even more, and then hate her.