i didn’t have a problem with him not learning, my problem was what about davening shacharis on time. i agree that obviously he wasn’t enjoying learning, as he was highly productive in his work.
on the other hand, shouldn’t a guy learn something? how should a wife encourage a guy to learn the something that he needs to learn? or should she do as you suggest and simply accept him for who he is? i read the answers, and i still don’t know which is proper thing.