and that is exactly why one should not just cold call shadchanim but one should network reach out to realitvies, family, cousins etc…and yes shadchnim that you come in contact with and the message is….
i understand how difficult it is to get a date off the ground…. i appreciate any and all the time you spend of behalf of…. if youy are able to get her to date number 1 i would want to compendsate you … if it’s a real quality idea that gets to date #4 i would compensate …… in apprciate of what it takes…
try it it works……