TBT/Ofcourse:
Please expain how appreciating and compensating ppl for the time and effort they put into your child is a “age gap” solution??
That should AND DOES help individual girls/their families who put it in play.
Disclaimer: it is not a magic solution. If a specific single is a difficult situation, they can and will generate attetnion but no gurantees of a date. Shadchanim can only try, and being appreciated for theri time and efforts is a very powerful motivator. They are NOT kol yachol.
For the record I am open to any and all idea to help the yachid and the rabbim with regards to shidduchim.
I ask one simple request. test it/tweek it and when you have proven results implement. It that being unreasonable??
Theories are a dime a dozen and not necessariyl helpful.
Results talk. Bring them to the table and i’m all ears.
Ofcoure: re: lists of shadchanim. Of course! (pun intended) but Snow wants to see for themselves…