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AZ:
Sometimes though, your point comes across a little sharp, or very sharp. Its probably the same drive that brings you to help so many people with barley a thank you (and probably many many disparaging remarks). But it does come across a little sharp, or very sharp.
(Just think of Penina and Chana.)
Snow: What I gather from AZ, may I make a suggestion. Hopefully you can find an honest an sincere shadchan (as most of them are) who will work for you, not voluntarily or optional basis, but almost as an employee. Then have them also contact other shadchonim etc, and tell them that quality suggestions (that produce x amount of dates etc) will be compensated. Your advocate as well should get something, say $25 additional (or as you see fit) for having made the contact to the other shadchan who produced these dates.
Truth is, this hired shadchan may even be a responsible friend or relative. But they get paid a nice fee, just for investing time, and they will now be able to move other shadchonim on your behalf (as $$$$$ does talk).
Just a thought based upon your idea, mixed in with the presented research. May you find your zivug soon