Reply To: Women & Girls Out There: I Really, Really Need Your Help!!!!

looking2grow: i think that if person seems like an amazing, growing person, can try her. (definitely does not have to be a rebbetzin). i think you should trust your instincts. if someone says something that you don’t feel will work, don’t do it. look for someone that you truly feel can understand you and know how to give advice. but as you get closer to the person, see if person has someone who they ask advice. the point of “aseh lecha rav” is that you are getting da’as torah from someone else who got da’as torah from someone else, going all the way back to moshe rabeinu, and it’s more of a straight line thinking, not messed up by our environment and psychology, like most of our thinking is.