Thanx 4 the chizuk and Amen to all the berachos kapusta bina yesaira..! i wish e/o who needs it the same!!wow Goldenkeit: thanx so much for sharing what an inspiration! a maamin thanx i need that! binah yesaira thnx so much and Amen! although i am looking for s/o slightly differen than my brother i feel from a/o else that he really understands what im looking for however he still feels that this new way of dress is im not sure if this is the right way of saying it but may be “unattractive” to some future boy(s) that id go out with so the question is how do u look attractive but not attracting? i feel that you cant go wrong doing the right thing but i kind of hear what hes saying and he knows better than me cause he’s the boy although i still feel that i shouldnt swith back..thnx 4 the encouragement my take: B”H i feel that my new way of dress is portraying the real me and is “my type” and i dont think its a contradiction to the fact that yes my mother and brother maybe even more so my brother really do know what im looking for and i feel on the contrary some of my other clothing gave the wrong impression of who i really am. They just feel that there may be boys who may not want s/o who dresses in such a way (althogh they are right for me-but i guess maybe not?) but i feel that a boy who doesnt appreciate it isnt for me it sounds like most ppl here agree i just hope this is the right thing to do in such a situation. It really is best to ask Daas Torah but i really dont feel comfortable calling our Rav any ideas?
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