Reply To: Women & Girls Out There: I Really, Really Need Your Help!!!!

looking2grow: kol hakavod to you. you’re definitely doing the right thing. tell me, are you looking for someone similar to your brother or different (in hashkafa). it could be that they’re right – that you won’t be attracting certain boys, but it sounds like those are not the type you want to marry. by dressing totally tzniously (and hopefully, still attractively) what you’re doing is saying “yes” and opening yourself up to the type of boy you do want to marry. now, make sure that everyone who can find someone, knows what type of boy you do want. good luck! you’re definitely doing the right thing. it’s very hard to go in a different way from your family, even if it’s only in these areas. it can be very challenging. keep yourself surrounded by like-minded individuals, so you can keep “looking2grow”. i second kapusta’s brocha. 🙂