SJS: i know; i was just commenting on us – i didn’t take it that you thought it was right or wrong.
i understand how single girls don’t dress so tzniusly – don’t truly understand the effects they have on guys. but how do married women dress provocatively – what in the world are they thinking?
except that i think we get immune to certain styles when we see it again and again, and we actually desensitize ourselves.
this posting reminds me of Rabbi Orlovsky’s lecture on platonic relationships. he once spoke in front of boys and girls, stating how boys cannot have platonic relationships. people started arguing with him, until finally one girl realized, that it was only the girls that were arguing, and asked the boys to say something to defend themselves. boys just looked at each other and smiled sheepishly.