Here goes my list
(and i x hav that many expectations)
1) CLEAN clothes (DUH?!)
2) SMELL NORMAL
3) The car should’nt smell or be dirty (cigarettes, old food, feet)
4) Come on time, and if your running late be resp. and call
5) Open doors (of course)
6) Dont sit and darshan the whole time, yes- we like torah…but u x havta give us a shuir ON A DATE…a little d’var torah is okay..but dont push it
7) Dont mention: weight…or things a girl might get insulted or be sensative to..(this one guy didnt stop telling me how his mother is a size 0..it was pretty weird and uncomfotable)
8) Try not to act as awkard or as weird as possible…
9) Oh, use MOUTHWASH..gum (YES, we CAN smell from across the seat)
10) Dont call your parents when your at the girls house 2 tell them u got there (really happen)
11) Plan ahead 1-2 place 2 go BEFORE you go on a date..get directions BEFORE…dont call your friend on the phone and ask where to go (also happened)
12) DONT BE A WALL!! TALK!! ( I was on a date and the guy just sat there all quiet for like ten minutes leaving me yapping/ as i was trying to deplete the massive awkwrdness and silence..wen i asked him why he was so quiet he said the following: “i learned that wen someone is talking i shud b quiet”!!?!!—Guys, DONT do or say that)
13) If your on a date and u see right away she is not for you (and this goes for girls as well) DO NOT BE RUDE! Dont act like u wanna run home..its a chilul hashem too, by treating s/o like that..we’ve all had dates like that, but u gotta put yourself together and FAKE IT!! BE A MENTCH!!
14) low music in the car would be nice
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15) and when you drop her off DONT ZOOOM away until you see the door close!!