Really, these are not big issues, try to look at each other with an ayin tov, see the good points, (isn’t nice he wants to say hello to you and not just be a cold mailbox transaction, maybe you were due for an increase anyway and he had let it go, so now when he feels he is going to lose money, he feels the threat – believe me after mortgage, taxes, repairs, vacancies, etc, landlords are not raking it in) and let this go – you can handle for 3 months, if you can’t, then explain to him how much you appreciate all he’s done, would he please overlook the raise as it would be a hardship-do you have security, you can let that pay for one and a half months. Approach this as you would want to be dealt with, and pat yourself on the back!
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