Reply To: Rather stay single than marry someone who isnt what they envisioned…….

DY Pretty shallow definition of marriage, if you ask me.

Why not look for a best friend (obviously with similar life goals, etc) which is usually lasting, rather than looking for a trophy Shidduch “se zul klingen of de gassen”, like many parents and singles do. As soon as people feel their “knockadicke” Shidduch doesnt impress the Weisses and the Schwartzes, they’re ready to jump ship.