PBA – “I would expect the moral of your story to be that bad marriage is always worse than no marriage.”
Of course it is. But do people get bad marriages because they settle on some Narishkeit? No, of course not.
Did you think I meant a frum person should marry a frei person?
Is this what I meant by settling?
You know what I mean by settling, eg.- he’s not such a masmid, he/she doesn’t make enough or have enough money, he’s/she’s a neb, he/she doesn’t dress the fanciest, latest style, he/she isn’t so good-looking, etc.
I could go on & on, but you get my drift!