yes, you and your mom need to be on the same page here. if shes telling people to look out for you, and you are telling them you are not interested, then they are getting mixed messages. you need to be clear in expressing your reasons to her, and hopefully she will understand and act according to your wishes. on the same note, explain to your friends that you need to be focusing on other aspects of your life right now that have “kadima”, and that you will let them know when you are ready to be involved in shidduchim again. just be gracious and appreciative of their efforts, and when the right time comes, suggestions will pour back in. hatzlacha 🙂
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