Regarding the chosson letters on display: If my chosson will write a letter to me I would never dream of putting up for display! Like Poster said:
“…Just to end off, your relationship with your spouse, which is hopefully as beautiful as you make it sound, is the biggest treasure in the world. Love notes in the open, and openly speaking about personal relationships is CHEAP. Your wife, yourself and the bond btwn you, deserve better.”
Same applies to chosson and kallah notes/letters/poems etc.
My god, I cannot believe this needs to be explained to anyone…