Reply To: Kibud Av V'Eim

From another thread, quote and reply posted by popa_bar_abba:

If a mother tells her daughter to do something and that something is NOT against halacha, the daughter is obligated to do as her mother asks, out of Kibud Av v’Eim.

This is highly questionable. It is not at all clear that you are supposed to do something your parent wants when it does not directly affect the parent.

Anyone agree or disagree? And more importantly, sources?