I’m not sure what Rashi and Tosfos specifically you are reffering to on 29b kiddushin. i assume it is on the gemaras answer “ha lan, viha lihu”. Which opinion says one may abandon his family to learn torah?
Which of these definitions of abandon, are permitted for talmud torah and how do you see it from rashi/tosfos?
Definition of ABANDON according to Merriam Webster:
transitive verb
1
a : to give up to the control or influence of another person or agent
b : to give up with the intent of never again claiming a right or interest in <abandon property>
2
: to withdraw from often in the face of danger or encroachment <abandon ship>
3
: to withdraw protection, support, or help from <he abandoned his family>
4
: to give (oneself) over unrestrainedly
5
a : to cease from maintaining, practicing, or using