“listening to his music would cause you to get depressed”
if you call crying by “shvartze volf” getting depressed, I guess crying when you say tehilim or U’nesaneh Toikef is also depressing.
Should we ban that? How about the tunes used by a chuppah or mitzvah tanze?
Us chassidim have no problem crying. It cleans out your mind and heart from what’s bothering you.
Then we move forward with simcha.