BTW, I also sincerely believe that once someone has gone out with someone three times, they should NOT be considering anyone else until the budding relationship has come to some conclusion. One date does not make a relationship, but seeing someone more than a couple of times means there is SOMETHING there, and the potential should be respected and allowed to develop unhindered by other shidduchim.
What happens if they both seem like a good shidduch?
He is married now, B”H seems to be happy. Obviously it was bashert for him to marry the girl he married.
Then why do you think it’s a real shame that they never met?