I am looking for someone who is a girl, Jewish and living according to halacha, and I am looking for chemistry.
Truthfully I know there are a number of factors that may or may not enable this ‘chemistry’ to be there; she will probably have to be sensitive, intelligent, and pretty. But I don’t have a list with which I scrutinize each girl and when I check off the entire list say, “Hey, lets get married.” And sometimes it can just ‘click’ with a girl even though she didn’t appear to have those qualities. So basically, if I think I like her I’ll go out with her and see how it goes, kinda regardless of what her ‘qualifications’ are, and if not, not.
Only thing is I need someone who will be interested in a guy like me. That seems kind of hard to come by, because I think the ‘me’ on paper does not accurately represent the ‘me’ in real life. Not that on paper I have serious issues, but that it ostensibly portrays me as something I’m not.