vacation,
I’ll respond to you ‘al rishon rishon’:
-Totally agree!
-When someone says their looking for midos first and looks is secondary, it can be 100% true. But if some great guy/gal with great middos is difficult to look at, yes it may play a large factor in a negative response! Doesnt mean that looks are everything..
-good point!
-true true true! When i was in a bank in the city, there was a muslim passing by, he looked at his watch and put down his prayer rug and knelt down to pray. If they can do it 6x’s a day, halevai we can do it 3x’s a day!