I’m not in the market for a spouse, so this is strictly preference, not a prospectus:
Aside from all the standard stuff (erlichkiet, looking presentable, no criminal record, ect) the only thing I would insist on is a love of the outdoors.
She can go to the mall with her sister, her friends, her mother, her daughter / DIL, but with me, its gotta be outdoors.
Lucky for me, Mrs. is a fan