i think looking through tanach its clear that there is a an inyan that place of burial is important (even in terms of rising for techias hamaisim).
I never argued that it wasn’t important. But you’re going to insist that a wife MUST be buried next to one particular husband (as opposed to any others she may have in her life), you’re going to have to show me a source.
Again, if you can show me that I’m wrong, I’ll be more than happy to gracefully retract my statements… but to date, you have not done so.
The Wolf