i think there is a middle way to everything, for example, “excellent-good-fair-poor” you dont must be excellent(including marriage/looks)good should be fine for everybody in this world, but for some people fair is also right. poor, should nebach not be for us. my point is,if we (yidden)stick to the good catagory all the time, in any situation,we will be better off in life,and not cause anybody men/woman to fall into any unconfortable situations anywhere. hope my point was clear enough,if not, let me know!!!
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