Over the very many years that I was married,two friends’ husbands asked me if I could “get ” their wives to be more optimistic about things;they thought their wives complained too much.
I very quickly made myself sound very imperfect “Oh,I complain in the house,etc.” because I did not want them to entertain the thought for even ONE SECOND that anyone was better than their own wives in any way.
When a man sees someone elses’s wife and starts wondering how much better she is than what he has at home,he is treading on dangerous territory.
Prutzos who INTEND to turn the heads of other married men are playing with fire!