The problem with Shalom Bayis is the lack of personal responsibility and accountability. Stop making excuses like men looking at women in the street, or being abused as a child therefore being abusers. Everyone needs to take responsibility for themselves and being accountable for their own actions. One must understand the purpose of getting marriage, the importance of marriage, and the proper way to conduct a frum marriage. Each partner in the marriage is responsible to do their part to make the marriage work and to make the other one feel loved and respected.
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