“you have a lot to learn yet as you grow and mature.”
Aries: You’re DEFINITELY right!! I still have a lot of growing up to do…..
But,I did go through a lot (yeah, even if I’m so young…)and I got to take a glimpse of the world out there. I was also very involved with a case where I was supposed to convince a girl to go to a male therapist and I did some research.
First of all, I ASKED DAAS TORAH, which is of utmost importance! I was told to convince her to go for help, but, I shouldn’t tell her to necessarily go to HIM. I was paskened that if there are female therapists out there that can do the job, I’m not allowed to convince her.
This girl ended up going to the male therapist, and he never even helped her out!! There was ABSOLUTELY NO REASON for her to go to him.
I don’t think you want to take responsibility for the fact that others might think they’re allowed to do it. Anyway, bottom line: Daniel, I think you should ask your rav/rosh yeshiva etc. for advice, and aries: hatzlacha in your work! May Hashem help you help others.