In life, a person has to do his hishtadlus, but the truth is that we are not running the world. HaShem runs the world and he is in control of EVERYTHING. We are not in control of anything that happens to us. Everything is bashert. The reason that you did not find your zivug yet is because the time is not ripe yet, whatever that means. Sometime we are zoche to see in our lifetime why things happened,but most of the time we are not. Trust me, everything is B’yad HaShem but we must do our best and try our best in every situation. I have seen Yad HaShem so many times. He is always there for us. In regards to shiduchim, trust me. It’s nothing personal. There are so many girls out there in the same situation. IY”H you should find your bashert very soon. Garden of Emunah is an awesome book. Hatzlacha and simcha always.
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