cshapiro, I’m happy to tell you that this young man broke protocol and I doubt if he will follow through so YOU can call the shadchan and tell her after the phone call YOU have decided that it is best to drop it. Any young man who phones the girl is supposed to set up the date during that conversation. Anyone who doesn’t is certainly sketchy especially if he says he will “text” you. That is totally inappropriate. So do not be afraid to follow your instincts here, there is definitely something off. Go ahead and call the shadchan and tell her “thanks but no thanks”.
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