If you make a party, and not invite your father, there is always a chance he may find out, and be very hurt. Like a said earlier, maybe talk to him and explain to him that you are having a party for you daughter, but your mother will be there and it may be uncomfortable for both of them. Suggest maybe having a small party with just him or even having him over for Shabbat Lunch and serving Birthday cake for dessert, or going out to a restaurant(not sure in Mexico how it works out) But honesty and communication are very important and reassure him that you love him very much.
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