Reply To: Everyone is "amazing"- how can you tell who really has great Midos?

bpt, “Ask to see them in person, like at a chasseneh, or vort”.

I like the idea, but it isnt done in any circles besides the very young Chassidish or very young very Heimish. The older singles dont want any part of that, whether right or wrong, and also dont have that meany chassanahs or vorts they go to.